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Real Life Wedding * Gaynor and Graham (part 2)

Did you read part 1 of Gaynor & Graham’s wedding last week? Well as promised here is the second part. (For those of you that may not know Gaynor guest blogged on LMW in the run up to her wedding so its really lovely to see the final photos) Over to you Gaynor….Gaynor Wedding CollageWe did the group shot first so that everyone could then get back inside to enjoy the drinks & canapés; I think only a couple of people were missing, all Grahams family so thankfully they are in other pictures.Wedding Group ShotMy gorgeous nephew Enzo gave me a horseshoe, one of 4 good luck charms we received.HorseshoeOur full bridal party; another of the shots I have framed!Bridal PartyGaynor & BridesmaidsI love these photos of me and GrahamCollage Gaynor and GrahamOf course being a Scottish wedding; Graham wanted to get some shots of all the guests in kilts; there was a lot!Men in Kilts at weddingI wanted to get some of me and all of my friends; we did get some serious ones but I love this one!Bride, Bridesmaids and FriendsDuring my dads speech; he presented me with a tea cosy knitted by mum in our wedding colours. It came from my old profile picture on my blog which was me as a baby wearing a tea cosy on my head!3rd SupriseThen it was time to cut our fabulous cake with the Lego bride & groom; we kept the top tier!Bride and Groom Cutting the CakeThis is my favourite photo of the first dance; no idea what we are laughing at though!Bride and Groom First DanceThe photographers at the wedding were Craig & Eva Sanders, who were recently featured on the gorgeous US wedding blog, Style Me Pretty – well done guys and thanks for sharing these fantastic photos from Gaynor and Graham’s wedding with us.
You can also find Gaynor on her blog OurDayByDesign) If you loved this wedding then check out some of the other real life weddings on LMW and don’t forget to leave us some comment love!

Bride and Groom in Wedding Car

Real Life Wedding * Gaynor and Graham (part 1)

Gaynor was a guest blogger on LMW in the run up to her wedding so I was over the moon that she agreed to come back and show us some of the amazing photos of her wedding, so many of them that we couldn’t choose so its going to be in 2 parts. Many congratulations to Gaynor and Graham and maybe your marriage be a happy and loving one!
Gaynor Wedding CollageHi Everyone
We have now been married for 3 months and the time has just flown by. We spent most of the first month of married life on our honeymoon; it got extended to 3 weeks due to the ash crisis at the time, and we had to spend an extra 5 nights in the Maldives, which was not at all hard, especially since Kuoni were paying!
Since getting back and getting our DVD of photographs, I have been tackling the thank you cards for our guests {I wanted to include some professional photos on the front} and trying to choose which of the hundreds of photos should make it into the album! Neither task is complete yet but I thought 3 months was a good goal! {Although since that was on Saturday; I didn’t finish by then but hopefully I will this week!}
So I thought it would be a good time to show you some of my favourite photos from the day; it was so hard choosing which to show you as we love every single one of them {which is why im having such a hard time with the album!} Our photographers were Craig & Eva Sanders
Gaynor getting readyThis is how I spent most of the morning, with my veil in a plastic bag on my back! The hairdresser had used a bulldog clip to attach it to the back of my top! Once I had got dressed, I came down the stairs; apart from Grahams sister, my other 4 bridesmaids hadn’t seen my dress or knew anything about it; I think they all approved!Groom and Best Men I love this shot of Graham leaving that Craig captured from inside the house. And the boys opposite the church after they had arrived.Gaynor with Father on Wedding DayI love this shot of me and my dad, on the church steps that Eva took.Gaynor and Father at weddingThis is the same pose but from Craig inside; I love how the minister is looking at this watch since it was already 1.20pm and the service was supposed to start at 1pm!Gaynor & Graham I got to Grahams side. Not long after, I had to grab onto Grahams arm as I felt a little wobbly!Gaynor in churchThere were a couple of surprises during our ceremony; the first one was from our flowergirl who sang Bonnie Wee Thing. She had asked if she could 16 months earlier when we asked her to be a part of the wedding and they all thought it would be better as a surprise!Gaynor and Graham get marriedExchanging our rings after our vows; I think you can see my dress really well in this shot! Our first kiss; I love how the minister is clapping away behind us!Signing the Wedding RegisterAfter signing the register we got some shots with our witnesses; my sister Ashleigh & Grahams cousin Andrew; also the chief bridesmaids & the best man.2nd Surprise at Gaynor and Graham WeddingThe second surprise came from our godmothers, who are also our aunts, who presented us with a bible on our wedding day.Gaynor and Graham on the stairsOn our way out of the church, I couldn’t manage getting down the stairs with my dress, flowers & holding Grahams hand so he got the flowers; I think that’s what we are laughing at here!Bride Outside the ChurchOnce outside the church, we were greeted by all of our guests. I love this one of my mum, and that’s Grahams mum to the left; they did have the biggest hats ever and I’m sure we are all laughing as mum could hardly reach me to congratulate me and almost knocked my tiara!Wedding Dress into CarOnce all the congratulations were over, it was time to get into the car {I had a Rolls Royce on the way to the church then a Jaguar to the reception} and make our way to Norton Nouse for the reception; the driver had to help get my train and veil into the car!Once me & my dress was completely in the car I was still laughing about it! Bride and Groom in Wedding CarThis is one of my favourite shots and one of the 5 that I currently have framed!

(Wow loving all those piccies Gaynor – its so late at night now that I am going to save the part 2 instalment for another day very soon. In the meantime you can also find Gaynor on her blog OurDayByDesign)

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Hand-designed wedding invites

(Ahh its Gaynor, our guest blogger and bride to be any day now, back with her news and showing us her beautiful hand made invites and sharing tips and fantastic stationery suppliers with us, so that you can make your own invites too – it sounds like a lot of work but definitely worth it!)

Hi everyone,
Since my last update at the beginning of January, where I listed our massive To Do list, we have been really busy ticking off as many of those items as we can off the list! Of course we also managed to add more things to it along the way, and hopefully most of those have also been ticked off!

The biggest task I completed {and hence my reason for the lack of posts lately} was completing and posting the invitations! I revealed them on my blog already(OurDaybyDesign) so to follow on from my previous post about our Save the date’s, I thought I would let you all know a little bit more about our invitations; what I used to make them and where I found all of my supplies.

Hand Made Wedding Invites

Pocketfolds – Colorplan Col25 Amethyst 145mm Book Pocketfold – PDA Card & Craft;
Gatefolds – Colorplan Col25 Amethyst 145mm Gatefold creased cards – PDA;
Purple Card {ribbon bellyband seal} – Dark purple card – the Paper Mill;
Grey Card {invite/rsvp backing & bellyband seal} – Colorplan Col29 Dark Grey Card – PDA;
Paper – Sparkling White Iridescent paper from the Folio range at Paper State – Hobbycraft;
Purple Ribbon – Purple Satin ribbon – Kate’s Paperie;
White Ribbon – White Organdy ribbon – Kate’s Paperie;
Grey Ribbon {ribbon bellyband} – Smoked Grey ribbon from Berisfords – Swift-Hart Boxes;
Stamp – Linden Branch Stamp – Unity Stamp Company;
Ink – Violet Versacolor ink from Tsukineko – Hobbycraft;
Tools – Stamp-a-ma-jig; Fiskars Paper Trimmer; Fiskars Drops corner rounder;
Glue – Double sided permanent transfer tape from Stix 2 – Hobbycraft;
Translucent Envelopes – 155mm Square Envelopes – Ideal Envelopes;
White RSVP Envelopes – 120mm Square Envelopes – PDA;

To print everything I just used my standard inkjet printer and it coped very well with the load! The information & map / directions insert sheets were both double sided which also turned out great.

All of our guests loved them and I have had loads of lovely comments about them. Everyone thought the insert sheets were really helpful and loved that we had included an RSVP sheet & envelope which also included the transport option on it. My mum is currently collecting them all together as we used their address since the invites came from both sets of our parents. We wanted to do this since they are both helping us with the wedding and we thought it was a lovely touch for those friends of my parents who wouldn’t know Grahams parents and vice versa. My aunt, who we obviously know is coming, doesn’t want to send the rsvp back as she wants to keep the whole invite together to show people and another friend had to contact me to get our gift list details as she had taken the invite to show her mum and left it there. Other friends of my parents also told me on Sunday that they had all been taking them everywhere to show everyone!

For our evening invites, we amended the main wording to suit and then amended the other insert sheets accordingly. They were then put in a gatefold card to make them a bit different but they used the same ribbon bellyband & envelopes.

Since we didn’t actually send invites to our parents, as they came from them, both my mum and Grahams mum wanted a version to keep as well so I amended the main invite wording just to say ‘request the pleasure of your company’ rather than a name as per the other guests ones. I now also need to do 1 of both the day and evening invites for us to keep too.

I haven’t really counted the total cost of them yet but that wasn’t the reason I decided to make them. I really wanted to design and make my own stationery right from the start and knew that this way I could get something that no one else had that was totally unique to us. Obviously I did look at loads of different ideas online and when I first started searching for ideas I found this US wedding blog {http://roadtotheaisle.blogspot.com which was my original inspiration to also start blogging} and I loved the ribbon bellyband idea she had done. Since then I also found loads of examples / ideas from sellers on Etsy.

The rest of our stationery also uses the same them and we have already completed the favour boxes using the same seal as the ribbon bellyband. We have also completed the order of service’s and menu’s which used the same purple card, sparkly paper, grey ribbon and a card & paper seal like the invites. The table plan, table names and placecards also used the same card & a thinner version of the purple ribbon, but we also used a different punch on those. Since the tables are going to be named after buildings in New York, which is my favourite city and where we got engaged, we found a Martha Stewart edge punch which had a city skyline on it. We have used it on the top of the paper on the individual placecards, each table name and each table list on the table plan, which I think all look really good.

Summer table flower arrangements

82 days to go and here is my ‘To Do List’

I hope everyone had a lovely Christmas and that 2010 will be a lovely year for you all. I thought I should start my posts in 2010 with our current list of wedding items still to do. Some are in progress but others still need to be started which is a little worrying! I have to admit that I haven’t progressed any further with the wedding invitations since we got back from holiday but I’m not too concerned yet as they shouldn’t take too much longer and all of our guests already know about the wedding from the save the date cards. I would like to have them all sent out before we meet our venue coordinator at the end of January so that we have a better idea of our final numbers.
Summer table flower arrangements

Flowers by Florish & Green

So with 83 days until the wedding, this is what we still have to do:

• Give notice of our marriage {as soon as possible and before the middle of March}.
• Finalise our hymns, readings & music for the ceremony and speak to the minister.
• Choose people to do the readings.
• Book the hairdresser.
• Pay for our wedding rings and decide what we want engraved inside them.
• Choose a song for our first dance.
• Have hair and make-up trials.
• Have our hen & stag nights {the bridesmaids & best man are arranging them}.
• Hire a kilt for one of our ushers {the other usher & best man are buying their own}.
• Buy all of my accessories; my shoes, veil, tiara & jewellery.
• Finalise my old, new, borrowed & blue.
• Make all the day & evening invitations {this is still a work in progress}.
• Choose our menu & wine and decide whether to upgrade to Champagne & canapés {we have a meeting with our venue coordinator on the 30th January}.
• Make all the order of service’, menus & placecards {samples have been ordered}.
• Decide on the seating arrangements & make the table plan.
• Decide on the table names & make the table name cards.
• Choose the gifts for our Gift List.
• Get gifts for the bridesmaids, best man & ushers.
• Make thank you cards for the bridesmaids, best man & ushers.
• Buy chocolate eggs for the favours and tissue paper to put inside the boxes {we got the boxes while we were in the US}.
• Paint our G & G letters.
• Decide if we want to ask one of our guests to video the ceremony & speeches.
• Book a hotel for the Sunday night before we leave for our honeymoon.
• Buy anything we need for the honeymoon & pack.
• Check if we need any vaccinations etc for the honeymoon {as soon as possible}.
• Try to grow my nails then get a manicure the day before the wedding.
• Decide if I would like a fake tan or not and have a trial.

I’m sure there are other things that I have forgotten about or not even thought of yet and of course we still have to pay for everything and pay all of our suppliers when the bills arrive!

You can keep up with all my wedding planning in the run up to the wedding on my blog Our Day by Design.

Front Ribbon

How we Saved the Date!

The first DIY task that I tackled was our Save the Date cards. Since we are getting married on Easter Saturday, many people we know often go away for an Easter break, as we ourselves did this year, so we wanted to make sure they all knew to keep the weekend free.

Front of Save the Date card

As soon as we got engaged I knew I would want to make all of our stationery myself. I started thinking about ideas almost straight away but as I was in the middle of my professional exams to become an Architect, I didn’t start making them until my exams were over and I had passed, which was in March this year, almost a year before the big day.

However, this didn’t stop me collecting everything I needed to make the Save the Date cards. Having looked at hundreds of ideas in magazines, on blogs and wedding websites, I knew I wanted to incorporate different layers, purple card, vellum paper, ribbon and some stamping! I decided against magnets or folded cards early on and went for a small credit card sized card which I thought would be the most simple! 

I actually bought the ribbon in Kate’s Paperie in New York, the day after we got engaged. Luckily my aunt and uncle went to New York in May this year and they were able to get me more ribbon to use on the invites! Although I couldn’t get any more of the purple card, I managed to find a company who had almost the same colour to use for the invitations.

Save the Dates

You can find a full list of the items we used and where we got them on my blog – OurDaybyDesign

Although I really enjoyed making the save the date cards, they were so time consuming! They were only A7 size cards but this actually caused a few problems when I was trying to print onto the white paper. They kept getting stuck in the printer which was so frustrating! Of course, when it worked well it was fine! Since I wanted to use the purple card as a backing but also wanted to incorporate vellum, I ended up with the 3 layer design. I couldn’t stick the paper and card together until I had stamped the paper and let it dry which added to the time it took.

However, the most time consuming part was punching the slots to put the ribbon through which also secured the vellum layer! I hadn’t considered the thickness of the card and when the paper was stuck down it made it even harder to punch. The making memories slot punching tool I used was great but I think I expected to be able to use it really quickly like a hole punch when in reality I had to use a lot of pressure. So much so that I actually broke the first slot punching tool attachment and had to buy another full set!

Complete with Envelope Back

So although I knew I would want the wedding invites to follow the same theme, straight away there was no chance of ribbon slot punching being incorporated again! I am using the purple card in pocketfolds for the day invites and gatefold cards for the evening invites. The original paper I used has a sparkling iridescent quality which I definitely wanted to use again, especially since the purple card and the grey backing card I added are flat matt colours. I also managed to find a different larger stamp which has the same sort of motif, as I thought the original one was too small for the invitations. I am using the same colour of ink again so that it looks the same.

Then of course, the ribbons will also be used, again at the left side of the invite so I can continue with the text on the right. I decided not to use a vellum overlay on the invites but instead started thinking about other ways to incorporate transparent paper. I considered going for a bellyband made of vellum but went off that idea when I started thinking about how I would close it neatly and the size required since the previous vellum used only came in A4 sheets! I decided to use grey ribbon for the bellyband to contrast with the purple card which works a lot better and is great since I do love ribbon! So in the end I have decided to go with vellum envelopes as that way the gorgeous purple card and grey ribbon can be seen as soon as they arrive through our guest’s letterboxes!

Despite them taking much longer than anticipated, all of the guests really liked them and thought they looked great which makes it all worthwhile! I hope they say the same about the wedding invites, which you can see a sneak peek of them below! I planned to get all of the printing, stamping, backing cards & ribbon put on the day invites before I go on holiday on Saturday but I don’t think that’s going to happen. I have done 36, with another 12 at least printed which only leaves another 10 to do. However, we still have plenty time as we are not planning to send them out until January. Looks like I will be busy over Christmas!

Invite Mock-up Inside

Invite Mock-up Outside

If you didn’t get a chance to read my previous post click to read on ‘the wedding preparations of a bride to be’ or check out some of the other posts on wedding stationery on Little Miss Wedding.

Wedding preparations from blogger & bride to be, Gaynor

Hi everyone,

I’m very excited to be guest blogging for Little Miss Wedding and thought I should start by telling you all a bit about our wedding and giving you an overview of where we are in our preparations.

Graham and I are getting married on the 3rd April 2010 and I started my own wedding blog, Our Day by Design, back in May, to document all of our planning and any ideas along the way. I have enjoyed it a lot more than I ever thought I would, it’s become a part of my everyday life and I have become totally immersed in reading other blogs too, mostly wedding related but some others as well.

 Header Purple & Grey with 3 flower stamps

Our journey started last September, when Graham took me to New York, where he proposed at the top of the Empire State Building. Soon after, we chose our wedding party {5 bridesmaids, a flowergirl, the best man & 2 ushers} before we started looking at venues and set the date for Saturday 3rd April 2010, which happens to be Easter Saturday. As part of my wedding preparation, in January this year, I started doing Weight Watchers. I found the plan fairly easy to follow and by taking it slowly, I have managed to lose 2 and a half stone to get to my goal weight. Now I just need to maintain it until April as my fabulous dress has already been ordered!

I would say that our wedding is going to be fairly traditional in that we are getting married in the church where I was christened, in the town where we both went to school, and having our reception at a country house hotel with its own grounds, near Edinburgh. I have the ivory dress and the full bridal party as well as wonderful old cars but we are also trying to personalise the day to us and the time of year! So far this includes the use of my favourite colour; lots of ribbon; painted wooden letters with our initials; tables named after buildings in New York {since we got engaged there and it fits with my profession as an Architect}; my favourite flowers mixed with some spring blooms & mini Easter egg favours. I will also be making all of the stationery myself.

After being engaged for over 14 months, we have managed to get quite far in our wedding planning. So far we have booked the church; reception venue; photographer; cars; band; cake; florist; chair covers; make-up company & our fabulous honeymoon which I’m so excited about already! We have also ordered my dress; the bridesmaid’s dresses; the rings & Grahams Kilt. The only purchases we have made are the flowergirls dress; wooden letters & the invitation supplies and we have also set up our gift list. I completed my first DIY task of making the Save the Date cards and I’m ready to get started on the invites.

Gaynor and husband to be Graham

Gaynor and husband to be Graham

It does sound like a lot and we have definitely accomplished all the major tasks, apart from making all the invitations, which is the next thing on my list. We are going to Florida for two weeks at the start of December so I’m currently trying to think of anything I might need to get while we are there, especially things that I can’t get in the UK. I’m thinking it could be a good place to look for my shoes or some honeymoon attire and I have seen some favour boxes which would be perfect but cant be shipped here!

With 143 days until the wedding, we still have lots to do and our to do list is probably longer than the tasks done list which is slightly worrying but will give me plenty to share with you all over the coming months!

Hope you enjoy reading!
Gaynor